Feeling Like You're Babysitting in a Relationship?
The Situation
"He's younger and I feel like I'm babysitting him"
The Brutal Truth
He’s likely immature and not ready for a genuine partnership, relying on you for emotional guidance rather than being an equal. This dynamic can feel exhausting and unfulfilling, leaving you feeling undervalued.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try harder to 'fix' him or validate his feelings, believing they need to be the emotional caretaker. This enables his behavior and neglects their own needs, perpetuating a cycle of unfulfilling relationships.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What pattern from your past relationships are you ready to break so you can embrace a partnership where you're truly equals?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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