When Your Partner Admits They're Bad at Emotional Support
The Situation
"He said he's not good at emotional support but won't try"
The Brutal Truth
He's basically saying he's emotionally unavailable but refuses to do anything about it. This is a major red flag indicating he lacks the willingness to grow or support you, which is crucial for a healthy relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, hoping to change him or convince him to try. This is misguided; you cannot heal someone else's emotional shortcomings, and this only erodes your self-worth further.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would my ideal partner offer in terms of emotional support, and how do I ensure my standards align with that?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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