Why Being Dumped Before Valentine's Day Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He dumps me before Valentine's Day every year"
The Brutal Truth
This pattern reveals a commitment-phobic individual who uses emotional manipulation, showing you his lack of respect for your feelings and needs. He prioritizes self-preservation over fostering a stable relationship, and it’s time to recognize this cycle for what it is.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to win him back by changing themselves or apologizing for things they didn't do wrong, believing they can somehow convince him to stay. This is emotional self-neglect and a harmful approach to relationships.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What pattern might you be repeating by accepting his behavior and how does it reflect on your self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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