Dating Red Flag: When Bedtime Enforcement is Considered Strict
The Situation
"He says I'm too strict when I enforce bedtime"
The Brutal Truth
He's criticizing your boundaries so he can avoid accountability for his actions. By calling you 'too strict,' he is manipulating you into thinking you're the problem instead of recognizing that he needs to respect your needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might plead with him to understand their need for boundaries, jeopardizing their self-worth in the process. This approach often leads to further manipulation and frustration, damaging their emotional well-being.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to feel respected in a relationship, and how do I communicate these clearly?
✨ What To Do Next
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