Disrespectful Dating: What Leaving Messes in Your Space Means
The Situation
"She uses my office for makeup videos and leaves ring lights everywhere"
The Brutal Truth
He doesn't respect personal boundaries and sees your space as convenient for his use. This dismissive behavior shows a lack of consideration for your feelings and environment. It's a sign that he prioritizes his needs over yours.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to accommodate him by cleaning up after him or indirectly hinting about their discomfort. This is wrong because it reinforces his behavior and neglects their own feelings and boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to establish boundaries that honor your space and needs?
✨ What To Do Next
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