Understanding Boundaries: When Respect is Lacking in Dating
The Situation
"She doesn't respect my boundaries"
The Brutal Truth
This indicates she’s disregarding not just your boundaries but your feelings. It’s a blatant sign of emotional unavailability or perhaps manipulation. If your boundaries aren’t respected, you’re being set up for potential heartache.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to explain their boundaries better or second-guess themself, hoping to win her respect. This is wrong because it shifts the responsibility onto you to accommodate her, instead of her needing to respect you. You deserve someone who values your limits without confusion.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I need to feel safe and respected in a relationship, and why is that important for me?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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