Why Setting Boundaries is Mistaken for Control in Relationships
The Situation
"She accuses me of being controlling when I set boundaries"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior reveals a fundamental misunderstanding of boundaries. Accusing her of being controlling when he actually feels threatened by her need for limits is a manipulation tactic, often masking his own insecurities and desire for control.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize and question their own boundaries, trying to appease him. This is the wrong move because it diminishes their self-worth and reinforces his narrative, allowing toxic behavior to continue unchecked.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would my life look like if I prioritized my own boundaries over someone else's comfort?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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