Why He Acts Like a Boyfriend in Bed But Distant Outside
The Situation
"He acts like a boyfriend in bed but distant everywhere else"
The Brutal Truth
He's using physical intimacy to maintain connection while emotionally avoiding commitment. This behavior is self-centered and manipulative, leaving you craving validation without security. It’s a classic case of mixed signals, and you deserve better.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze every interaction, seeking reassurance or trying to pull more out of him to validate their worth. This is toxic because it reinforces dependency and neglects their own needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you have to settle for partial affection instead of wanting full commitment?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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