Understanding Budget-Related Conflicts in Dating
The Situation
"She blew the budget on flowers and expects me to fix it"
The Brutal Truth
He’s placing the blame solely on her for spending shortcomings, which reveals his lack of accountability and respect. Instead of discussing finances like adults, he’s shifting the burden and expecting her to fix his discomfort. This is a clear sign of toxicity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to overcompensate by apologizing profusely or offering to pay for the flowers just to keep the peace. This is wrong because it reinforces the idea that they should fix others' mistakes instead of respecting their own boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of your relationship patterns leads you to believe you must shoulder blame and fix others’ shortcomings?
✨ What To Do Next
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