Why Your Partner's Chore Habits Are a Red Flag for Commitment
The Situation
"He never helps with chores unless guests are coming"
The Brutal Truth
His lack of help with chores reveals his priorities: he only takes action when others are watching. This behavior is selfish and suggests he doesn’t value shared responsibility or partnership, making you question his commitment to the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start doing extra chores to win his approval, thinking they can earn his attention. This is toxic because it fosters a cycle of codependence and reinforces the idea that their worth is tied to his perception of them.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your needs if you're settling for a partner who only contributes when it's convenient for them?
✨ What To Do Next
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