What to Do When He Cancels to Rescue Friends from Their Drama
The Situation
"He cancels on me to rescue friends who created their own drama"
The Brutal Truth
He prioritizes his friends' chaos over your time together, showing his inability to set boundaries and commit. This is a clear sign that he may not value your relationship as much as you do, indicating possible emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-analyze the situation, convincing themselves it’s their fault or trying to fix the unfixable. This is wrong because it leads to self-blame rather than holding him accountable for his choices.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How often do you find yourself accepting someone else's drama over your own needs? What does that reveal about your self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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