Understanding Red Flags: Co-Parenting Before Meeting Kids
The Situation
"He wants me to co-parent before meeting his kids"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to fast-track your commitment without laying the proper foundation. This is a manipulation tactic to engage you emotionally before you meet his family, which is not only rushed but also self-serving. Set your boundaries, girl!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might agree to co-parenting to keep him interested, thinking it will somehow prove their worth. This is wrong because it blurs boundaries and sets you up for potential heartache and burnout.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only engage in relationships that respect your boundaries and take things at a healthy pace?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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