Does He Have Commitment Issues If He Feels Suffocated By Weekly Plans?
The Situation
"He said he feels suffocated when I ask to see him twice a week"
The Brutal Truth
He's telling you he can't handle a real relationship. Asking to see him twice a week is basic, but he views it as pressure. It means he’s not ready for something serious or isn’t invested in you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might panic, think they're being too needy, and pull back entirely to avoid suffocating him. But that's wrong! You deserve consistency and should never shrink yourself to fit another's comfort level.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your own needs in a relationship and only be with someone who aligns with them?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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