Why Compromise in Relationships Can Be a Red Flag
The Situation
"I'm always the one compromising in the relationship"
The Brutal Truth
If you're always the one compromising, it means he values his needs over yours and is not invested in mutual respect. This imbalance creates resentment and showcases a lack of accountability for his behavior. You deserve better than to feel sidelined.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel compelled to overanalyze his actions and question your worth, desperately trying to meet his expectations instead of valuing your needs. This is a trap! It perpetuates unhealthy dynamics and prevents true self-respect and empowerment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels that your needs are less important than his?
✨ What To Do Next
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