Understanding Control in Dating: When He Dictates Your Wardrobe
The Situation
"He tries to control what I wear"
The Brutal Truth
His attempts to control your wardrobe signal a deep insecurity and possessiveness. He’s trying to exert power over you, undermining your autonomy and self-expression. This behavior reflects his need to control rather than love you authentically.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to comply or change their wardrobe to keep the peace, believing it will make their partner happy. This is a huge mistake; it compromises their self-worth and individuality, fostering resentment and disconnection.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How does his behavior make you feel about your own autonomy and self-expression?
✨ What To Do Next
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