Why You Shouldn't Settle for Someone Who Disrespects Your Beliefs
The Situation
"He refuses to attend my church but expects me at his services"
The Brutal Truth
He wants you to cater to his needs while ignoring yours. This is a classic power play and shows he doesn’t respect your values. His expectations are selfish and reveal a lack of genuine commitment to your relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bend over backward to win his approval, making excuses for his behavior. This only reinforces the imbalance in the relationship and leads them deeper into discomfort and frustration.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes it’s okay to compromise your own beliefs for someone who doesn’t reciprocate?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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