Dating Dilemma: She Books Two Venues & Expects You to Choose
The Situation
"She booked two venues and expects me to cancel one"
The Brutal Truth
Her actions indicate she's playing games or testing your commitment. If she can't prioritize or communicate directly, she's not valuing your time or effort. This behavior shows insecurity and a lack of respect for you as a partner.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to prioritize her by cancelling one venue right away, fearing rejection or conflict. This is wrong because it ignores their own needs and reinforces unhealthy dynamics.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What about this situation makes you feel as though you should compete for someone’s attention rather than receive it freely?
✨ What To Do Next
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