Should You Date Someone Who Wants to Get Married After Three Months?
The Situation
"She wants to get married but we've only been dating three months"
The Brutal Truth
He's either not really listening to your pace or he's avoiding commitment talk until it's too late. If he seems rushed while you're still figuring things out, he's likely using marriage talk as a way to control or manipulate the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might either rush into the marriage talk themselves or panic and end the relationship to avoid potential heartbreak. This is wrong because it ignores the fundamental issue: understanding each other's needs and respecting your own pace; don't let fear dictate your choices!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What red flags have you been ignoring in this relationship, and what do they say about your own boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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