Dating Red Flag: Partner Invites Ex to Family Events
The Situation
"She invites her ex to our family events without asking me"
The Brutal Truth
This shows a blatant disregard for your feelings and boundaries. It signals emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your relationship, prioritizing their past over your present. It's a recipe for instability and hurt.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince themselves this is normal, or worse, they might downplay their feelings to keep the peace. Both are unhealthy responses that ignore their needs and signal a lack of self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to assert to feel safe in your relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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