Dating Red Flags: When Respect Isn't Real
The Situation
"She said she respects me but constantly puts me down"
The Brutal Truth
She claims to respect you, but her constant put-downs reveal a lack of genuine regard. This is a manipulative tactic designed to undermine your self-worth and maintain control over you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to her words, seeking validation and desperately trying to prove their worth. This is dangerous because it reinforces her toxic behavior and diminishes their own self-esteem.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does true respect look like in a relationship, and are you accepting anything less?
✨ What To Do Next
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