Understanding the Impact of Dating Someone Who Refuses Help for Depression
The Situation
"He's depressed but refuses to get treatment"
The Brutal Truth
His refusal to seek treatment shows a lack of awareness or willingness to address his issues. He's likely expecting you to accommodate his mood swings and emotional states without taking responsibility for his mental health, which is not fair to you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may overcompensate, constantly checking in, and trying to 'fix' him. This is a recipe for self-neglect and unhealthy dynamics. You cannot save someone who's not willing to save themselves.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me feels responsible for his happiness, and how can I prioritize my own emotional well-being instead?
✨ What To Do Next
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