What to Do When He Insists on an Expensive Destination Wedding
The Situation
"He insists on a destination wedding I can't afford"
The Brutal Truth
He cares more about the fantasy than your reality. Your financial limitations mean nothing to him. He's not prioritizing your needs or comfort, which shows a lack of respect for your partnership.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel pressured to agree or consider compromising your financial stability. This is wrong because it undermines your self-worth and prioritizes his desires over your needs.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does my financial comfort say about my self-worth in relationships, and am I ready to stand firm in my boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
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