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Why Ignoring Medical Advice About Pregnancy is a Red Flag in Relationships

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 7/10
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The Situation

"She ignores medical advice about spacing pregnancies"

The Brutal Truth

She actively disregards medical advice regarding spacing pregnancies, showing a lack of respect for her own health and future. This behavior raises questions about her decision-making skills and awareness of long-term consequences, which can deeply affect a partner's life.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might try to convince her to follow the advice or excessively worry about her choices, feeling responsible for her well-being. This is wrong because it shifts their focus on controlling the situation instead of recognizing their own boundaries and needs.

đź’­ Something to Reflect On

What beliefs do I have about my worth that make me tolerate unhealthy behaviors in others?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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