Should You Discipline His Kids After One Meeting? Red Flags Ahead!
The Situation
"He wants me to discipline his kids after meeting them once"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to offload parental responsibility onto you without any real relationship foundation. This screams emotional manipulation and disrespect for your boundaries. He wants a partner more than a co-parenting solution; tread carefully!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to comply and take on the role, fearing rejection or feeling inadequate. This is toxic because it sets a precedent for accepting responsibilities that aren't yours and distorts your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my worth if I feel like I need to prove myself by managing someone else's kids?
✨ What To Do Next
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