Why Talking About Marriage on a Second Date Raises Red Flags
The Situation
"He talks about marriage on the second date"
The Brutal Truth
Bringing up marriage early is often a tactic to reel someone in, showcasing control or excitement rather than genuine commitment. This behavior lacks awareness of healthy relationship pacing and signals a potential for rushing into emotional entanglements.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel flattered and rush to reassure him of their interest in a future together, possibly ignoring their own boundaries or actual feelings to maintain his affection, which can lead to unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it mean to you when someone mentions marriage so soon, and how do you want to respond to it in a way that aligns with your values?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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