Should You Discipline Your Partner's Kids When You're Not Family?
The Situation
"She wants me to discipline her kids even though I'm not family"
The Brutal Truth
She's putting you in a position that assumes responsibility without commitment. This signals a lack of respect for your boundaries and an unhealthy dynamic where you may feel obligated to act like a parent without actually being in that role.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overextend themselves to prove their worth by trying to meet her demands, thereby ignoring their own needs and boundaries. This is damaging and reinforces unhealthy patterns.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would healthy boundaries look like in a relationship for you?
✨ What To Do Next
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