Understanding the Distance Excuse in Dating: When Commitment Is Avoided
The Situation
"She uses distance as an excuse to not commit"
The Brutal Truth
She's likely using distance as a deflection for her fear of commitment. This behavior indicates a lack of willingness to engage deeply, not an impossibility based on geography.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might pursue her aggressively, attempting to reassure her, compromise their own needs, and question their worth based on her distance excuses. This behavior only reinforces their insecurity and hinders healthy boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What parts of your past relationships have taught you that love needs to be earned through compromise rather than freely given?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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