What Does It Mean When She's Distant? Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"She's been distant lately what did I do wrong"
The Brutal Truth
You're likely looking for validation based on your own insecurities, and blaming her for the distance. It's more about your fear of abandonment than her actions. She may sense this tension and is retreating, not because of what you've done but due to your reactions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overly text her, begging for an explanation and reassurance. This only pushes her further away because it reflects desperation, which can be a massive turn-off. Healthy relationships require space and trust, not clinginess.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What patterns in your past relationships have left you feeling unworthy or insecure? How can understanding those patterns help you choose a partner who values you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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