Why Your Ex Likes Your Posts After Breaking Up: The Truth
The Situation
"He ended things but keeps liking my posts"
The Brutal Truth
His likes are a way to keep you emotionally hooked while he enjoys the attention. He might crave validation but doesn’t want a commitment. You deserve someone who’s all in, not someone stringing you along.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might spiral and overanalyze his likes, thinking there's a chance for reconciliation. This mindset is toxic because it keeps you hooked on mixed signals instead of moving forward with your life.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of your self-worth is tied to receiving validation from someone who isn’t committing to you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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