Understanding Red Flags: When Your Partner Expects You to Cancel Plans
The Situation
"She expects me to cancel plans whenever her kids want something"
The Brutal Truth
He's essentially saying that her kids' needs come before your time, showing a lack of respect for your boundaries. It’s a big indicator that he may expect you to be always accommodating, which isn’t a partnership.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might worry endlessly about being perceived as unimportant or may feel compelled to please by canceling their plans. This only reinforces unhealthy patterns and leads to resentment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries am I willing to set that prioritize my needs in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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