Expecting a Partner to Fix Your Anxiety: Red Flags in Dating
The Situation
"She has anxiety and expects me to fix it"
The Brutal Truth
He’s putting the onus of her emotional health on her partner, which is selfish and signals emotional unavailability. He wants to be a savior but also lacks the responsibility to support her properly. That's a clear red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to overextend themselves, taking on her problems as their own, believing if they fix it, they’ll be necessary. This is unhealthy as it leads to codependency instead of healthy support.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to set to ensure both your needs and those of your partner are met?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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