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Understanding Why She Wants FaceTime While You're with Friends

🚩Yellow FlagToxicity Score: 6/10
#boundaries#mixed-signals#commitment-issues#trust-issues

The Situation

"She insists on FaceTiming while I'm with friends"

The Brutal Truth

She’s insecure and seeks constant validation. By demanding FaceTime during your time with friends, she’s projecting her need for reassurance rather than respecting your space or trust.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person may immediately comply, feeling guilty for wanting space, fearing rejection. This behavior reinforces unhealthy dynamics, where boundaries are blurred, leading to resentment.

💭 Something to Reflect On

What boundaries do I need to establish in my relationships to feel respected and valued?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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