What It Means When She Installs Smart Locks But Won't Share Codes
The Situation
"She installs smart locks and won't share the codes"
The Brutal Truth
She's creating barriers to intimacy and control. Not sharing the codes signals distrust or a lack of commitment, keeping you at arm's length and denying you access to her life.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to beg for access or reassure her that they're trustworthy. This is wrong because it undermines self-worth and invites more emotional turmoil into the relationship.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only engage with someone who openly shares their life with you?
✨ What To Do Next
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