Feeling More Invested in a Relationship? Red Flags Unveiled
The Situation
"I feel like I'm more invested in this than she is"
The Brutal Truth
This indicates he’s aware of the imbalance in emotional investment, which often translates to insecurity. Instead of stepping back, he may linger in hope, sowing doubt and making her feel pressured or guilty for not reciprocating.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze her responses, seeking constant reassurance. This is harmful because it puts emotional labor on her and may lead to feeling inadequacy when the attention they need isn’t reciprocated.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What pattern am I repeating when I feel overly invested in someone who isn’t all in?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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