Why Feeling Taken for Granted in a Relationship is Damaging
The Situation
"She takes me for granted and doesn't appreciate what I do"
The Brutal Truth
She sees your efforts as a given, not as something to value. This lack of appreciation shows a fundamental disconnect in how each of you views love and worth. It's not just about you; it's about her understanding of relationships.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start doing even more to prove their worth, drowning in unreciprocated affection and approval. This only reinforces the imbalance and keeps them stuck in a cycle of seeking validation from someone who doesn't appreciate them.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What parts of my relationship patterns reflect a tendency to prioritize others' needs over my own worth? How can I shift this narrative?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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