How to Recognize Financial Manipulation in Relationships
The Situation
"She keeps score about who earns more and weaponizes it"
The Brutal Truth
She's treating financial contributions as leverage, creating a dangerous imbalance in your relationship. This behavior is toxic and manipulative, making you feel inadequate and constantly compared.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overcompensate by trying to earn her approval through financial success or by defending their worth based on their income. This is wrong because it perpetuates the unhealthy dynamic instead of addressing the underlying manipulation.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What beliefs about worth and value are influencing your choices in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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