Flirty DMs from Exes: Networking or Red Flag?
The Situation
"She keeps flirty DMs from exes and calls it networking"
The Brutal Truth
She's keeping flirty messages from her exes under the guise of networking, which shows a lack of boundaries and respect for your relationship. This behavior suggests she’s not over her past and may struggle with commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to confront her, seeking reassurance and questioning her loyalty. This moves them into a cycle of anxiety and insecurity instead of addressing the underlying issues calmly and asserting their needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish in my relationships to feel secure and respected?
✨ What To Do Next
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