Why Following Instagram Models Can Signal Red Flags in Dating
The Situation
"He follows hundreds of Instagram models and it makes me uncomfortable"
The Brutal Truth
His endless following of Instagram models suggests he values superficial validation and may not be emotionally available. It’s a sign that he prioritizes attention from others over a real connection with you. This behavior reveals a lack of commitment and respect.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the need to confront him about it desperately, seeking reassurance or trying to prove their worth. This is wrong because it often leads to further insecurity instead of fostering healthy communication or addressing underlying issues.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How would it change your dating experience if you only engaged with partners who celebrated your worth and made you feel secure?
✨ What To Do Next
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