Why Boundaries Matter in Long-Distance Relationships
The Situation
"She won't set boundaries with male friends while we're apart"
The Brutal Truth
He's showing a lack of respect for your relationship by refusing to set boundaries with male friends. This suggests he prioritizes attention from others over your feelings, indicating deep insecurities or commitment issues on his part.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might scramble to please him by making excuses for his behavior or downplaying their discomfort. This is wrong because it neglects their own feelings and self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it tell you about your value when someone can't show you respect and set necessary boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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