Why You Fear Being Forgotten in Dating: The Red Flag
The Situation
"I'm afraid if I don't text her she'll forget about me"
The Brutal Truth
This fear reflects insecurity and low self-worth. Instead of establishing genuine connection, he relies on constant communication to validate his presence. It means he’s more concerned about his own fears than building a mutual relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overwhelm her with texts, seeking reassurance and trying to keep her attention on him. This sets a precedent of dependency, which can drive her away rather than draw her close. Instead, focus on self-worth and stability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes that your value depends on someone else's memory of you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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