Should You Let Him Put His Gaming Setup in the Bedroom?
The Situation
"He wants his gaming setup in the bedroom"
The Brutal Truth
He’s prioritizing his gaming hobby over creating a shared, intimate space, revealing a lack of commitment to building a healthy relationship. This is a clear message: his interests come first, and your needs might not even be on his radar.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bend over backwards to accommodate him, convincing themselves that it's okay to sacrifice their own comfort just to keep the peace. This is dangerous because it reinforces the idea that their needs are less important than his desires.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How willing are you to compromise on your personal space and comfort for someone who may not be valuing your needs?
✨ What To Do Next
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