Why Giving Space to a Partner Who Needs It Can Create Mixed Signals
The Situation
"He said he needs space but gets upset when I give it to him"
The Brutal Truth
He's sending mixed signals: needing space but feeling upset when he gets it. This reflects his emotional unavailability and inability to communicate effectively. It's not your fault, but you need clarity on what you deserve.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to constantly reach out, trying to 'fix' his mood or reassure him. This is the wrong move because it undermines your own boundaries and doesn't promote healthy communication.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to cater to someone's emotional needs before your own?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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