Should I Be Grateful He Dates Younger Women?
The Situation
"He says I should be grateful he dates younger women"
The Brutal Truth
He’s manipulating you into feeling special while belittling your worth—making you feel lucky for his attention. This is a classic power move that can mask his insecurities and entitlement. You deserve someone who values you, not just as a conquest.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel they must constantly prove their worth to him, overthinking every interaction to seek validation. This is toxic because it places their self-esteem in his hands, rather than realizing they deserve respect and admiration as they are.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes I deserve to feel lucky to receive attention from someone who undermines me?
✨ What To Do Next
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