How to Handle Scary Conversations About Relationship Direction
The Situation
"I want to ask where this is going but I'm scared to push him away"
The Brutal Truth
He's keeping you uncertain to avoid commitment while enjoying your presence. Your fear of pushing him away is what's allowing him to stall the conversation about your relationship status. It’s a tactic that reflects emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might avoid asking and instead overanalyze every interaction, hoping for signals. This is unhealthy because it leads to more confusion and reliance on his mood rather than valuing your own needs and desires.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you fear asking someone about your relationship status?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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