He Asked Me Out But Then Said He's Too Busy to Meet: What It Means
The Situation
"He asked me out then said he's too busy to meet"
The Brutal Truth
He's not genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship. Saying he's 'too busy' is a convenient excuse to avoid commitment while keeping you on the hook.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might scramble to accommodate his schedule, thinking if they show more flexibility, he'll want to meet. This is misguided because it reinforces the idea that your worth depends on his availability.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your needs and only engage with someone who is excited to make time for you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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