Understanding Mixed Signals: He Comments but Ignores Messages
The Situation
"He comments on my stories but ignores my direct messages"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows he enjoys the attention you give him without the commitment. He's happy to engage publicly but avoids direct communication, indicating emotional unavailability and lack of respect for your needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might start flooding his DMs, seeking affirmation and trying to get a response. This only shows him you're insecure and desperate for validation, pushing him further away.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes attention is enough, even without respect?
✨ What To Do Next
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