He Doesn't Want You to Meet His Friends? Here's What It Means
The Situation
"He doesn't want me to meet his friends after six months"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is keeping you at arm's length and not including you in his life. It screams emotional unavailability and shows he might not see a future with you. If he cared, you'd be introduced as part of his world.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might pressure him to meet his friends or provide excuses for his behavior, seeking validation or reassurance. This is wrong because it compromises their self-worth and reinforces unhealthy relationship patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What red flags am I willing to ignore for the sake of keeping someone in my life?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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