When He Promises to Talk to Your Dad But Never Does
The Situation
"He promised to talk to my dad weeks ago and still hasn't"
The Brutal Truth
He’s disrespecting your time and emotional investment. This is a classic case of lack of accountability and commitment. He likely isn’t serious about you or your relationship. He’s keeping you hanging without a real intention to follow through.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep reaching out or constantly questioning him about it, which only reinforces their insecurity. This behavior usually pushes him further away and reflects a lack of trust in one's self-worth and judgment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only pursue connections that value your time and intentions?
✨ What To Do Next
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