He Sabotaged Your Interview: Red Flags in Dating Behavior
The Situation
"He sabotaged an interview by starting a fight the night before"
The Brutal Truth
He intentionally created chaos to prevent your success, showing a lack of support and willingness to undermine you, likely out of insecurity or jealousy. This manipulation is toxic and reflects a need for control over your life and choices.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might try to appease him, thinking that calming him down will ensure a stable relationship. This is the wrong move because it sacrifices your needs and self-respect for the illusion of peace. You cannot control his behavior; only your response matters.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What are you willing to tolerate in a relationship, and how does that reflect your self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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