What to Do When He Says He Respects You But Shows Mixed Signals
The Situation
"He said he respects me but his actions say otherwise"
The Brutal Truth
His words are empty. While he claims to respect you, his actions scream otherwise, showing inconsistencies that undermine your worth. This type of behavior indicates a lack of genuine commitment or emotional maturity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling on and seek constant reassurance, believing that if they just show enough patience, he will change. This is unhealthy and only reinforces the mixed signals, further diminishing self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What signals am I sending myself about my own worth by accepting inconsistent treatment?
✨ What To Do Next
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